Khas untuk anak-anakku dan juga teman-teman, agar doa serta ungkapan ini sentiasa diamalkan selepas solat. Semoga Allah akan mengurniakan pasangan dan teman hidup yang terbaik untuk kita melayari kehidupan ini dengan tenang dan membahagiakan hingga akhir hayat.
Dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang
Ya Allah…
Seandainya telah Engkau catatkan…
Dia milikku tercipta buatku…
Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku…
Titipkanlah kebahagiaan antara kami…
Agar kemesraan itu abadi…
Ya Allah…
Ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengasihani…
Seringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini…
Ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi…
Maka jodohkanlah kami…
Tetapi Ya Allah…
Seandainya telah Engkau takdirkan
Dia bukan milikku…
Bawalah dia jauh daripada pandanganku…
Luputkanlah dia dari ingatanku…
Dan periharalah aku dari kekecewaan…
Ya Allah ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengerti…
Berikanlah aku kekuatan…
Menolak bayangannya jauh ke dada langit…
Hilang bersama senja yang merah…
Agarku sentiasa tenang…
Walaupun tanpa bersama dengannya…
Ya Allah yang tercinta…
Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdir-Mu…
Sesungguhnya apa yang telah Engkau takdirkan
Adalah yang terbaik untukku…
Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Mengetahui…
Segala yang terbaik buat hamba-Mu ini…
Ya Allah…
Cukuplah Engkau sahaja yang menjadi pemeliharaku…
Di dunia dan akhirat…
Dengarkanlah rintihan daripada hamba-Mu yang daif ini…
Jangan Engkau biarkan aku sendirian…
Di dunia ini mahupun di akhirat…
Menjuruskan aku ke arah kemaksiatan dan kemungkaran…
Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang beriman…
Agar aku dan dia sama-sama dapat membina kesejahteraan hidup…
Ke jalan yang Engkau redhai…
Dan kurniakanlah kepadaku keturunan yang soleh dan solehah…
Ya Allah…
Berikanlah kami kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat…
Dan periharalah kami dari azab api Neraka…
Amin…amin…Ya rabbal ‘aalamin.
P/S: Terima kasih kepada 'Tentang Cinta' untuk entri ini.
Something Special here...
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Pastinya Itulah Destinasimu.
Teman,
Andai masih lagi tersisa di hatimu sedikit kasih...
berikanlah aku kesempatan untuk bertandang di naluri kasihmu itu..
agar aku bisa melewati luka-luka semalam...
akan kubaluti luka kepedihan itu..
agar kau rasai betapa nikmatnya belaian tangan yang mengharapkan kepulanganmu...
Teman,
Bisakah kau mengemudi gelora persaanmu sendirian...
tentukah haluanmu itu!.. benarkah arah yang kau tuju!..
pastikah kau dengan perasaanmu.. haluanmu.. dan arahmu itu..
sudah pastikah sayang!...
kau pernah mengatakan yang pasti hanya mati..
Teman,
Arjunamu, cinta dan kesetiaannya sudah terserlah pasti..
bukan bayang-bayang yang mengekori setiap langkahmu..
dan bukan jua cermin yang mengikut setiap gaya dan perlakuanmu..
tapi dialah teman yang membawamu ke alam syurga yang pasti..
dan sudah sepastinya dia yang harus kau miliki..
Teman,
Tenangkan gelora hati.. jiwa..dan perasaanmu dengan solat dan zikir..
tentukan kiblatmu bersama tahajud cintaNYA dengan istikharah..
serahkan seluruh jiwamu dengan bertawakal kepadaNYA..
yakin dan pasti teman! akan jawapanNYA..
ikutlah haluan itu..dan sudah pastinya itulah Destinasimu..
Buat Temanku.. yang katanya masih lagi tercari-cari makna Kasih dan Kehidupan..
'Sayangku! kehidupanmu sudah dipenuhi dengan kasih dan sayang.. apa perlu lagi kau mencarinya di luar sana..yang belum tentu dan belum pasti akan lebih membahagiakanmu'.
Andai masih lagi tersisa di hatimu sedikit kasih...
berikanlah aku kesempatan untuk bertandang di naluri kasihmu itu..
agar aku bisa melewati luka-luka semalam...
akan kubaluti luka kepedihan itu..
agar kau rasai betapa nikmatnya belaian tangan yang mengharapkan kepulanganmu...
Teman,
Bisakah kau mengemudi gelora persaanmu sendirian...
tentukah haluanmu itu!.. benarkah arah yang kau tuju!..
pastikah kau dengan perasaanmu.. haluanmu.. dan arahmu itu..
sudah pastikah sayang!...
kau pernah mengatakan yang pasti hanya mati..
Teman,
Arjunamu, cinta dan kesetiaannya sudah terserlah pasti..
bukan bayang-bayang yang mengekori setiap langkahmu..
dan bukan jua cermin yang mengikut setiap gaya dan perlakuanmu..
tapi dialah teman yang membawamu ke alam syurga yang pasti..
dan sudah sepastinya dia yang harus kau miliki..
Teman,
Tenangkan gelora hati.. jiwa..dan perasaanmu dengan solat dan zikir..
tentukan kiblatmu bersama tahajud cintaNYA dengan istikharah..
serahkan seluruh jiwamu dengan bertawakal kepadaNYA..
yakin dan pasti teman! akan jawapanNYA..
ikutlah haluan itu..dan sudah pastinya itulah Destinasimu..
Buat Temanku.. yang katanya masih lagi tercari-cari makna Kasih dan Kehidupan..
'Sayangku! kehidupanmu sudah dipenuhi dengan kasih dan sayang.. apa perlu lagi kau mencarinya di luar sana..yang belum tentu dan belum pasti akan lebih membahagiakanmu'.
Friday, May 14, 2010
7 Things to Stop Doing Now on Facebook
by Consumer Reports Magazine
Using a Weak Password
Avoid simple names or words you can find in a dictionary, even with numbers tacked on the end. Instead, mix upper- and lower-case letters, numbers, and symbols. A password should have at least eight characters. One good technique is to insert numbers or symbols in the middle of a word, such as this variant on the word "houses": hO27usEs!
Leaving Your Full Birth Date in Your Profile
It's an ideal target for identity thieves, who could use it to obtain more information about you and potentially gain access to your bank or credit card account. If you've already entered a birth date, go to your profile page and click on the Info tab, then on Edit Information. Under the Basic Information section, choose to show only the month and day or no birthday at all.
Overlooking Useful Privacy Controls
For almost everything in your Facebook profile, you can limit access to only your friends, friends of friends, or yourself. Restrict access to photos, birth date, religious views, and family information, among other things. You can give only certain people or groups access to items such as photos, or block particular people from seeing them. Consider leaving out contact info, such as phone number and address, since you probably don't want anyone to have access to that information anyway.
Posting Your Child's Name in a Caption
Don't use a child's name in photo tags or captions. If someone else does, delete it by clicking on Remove Tag. If your child isn't on Facebook and someone includes his or her name in a caption, ask that person to remove the name.
Mentioning That You'll Be Away From Home
That's like putting a "no one's home" sign on your door. Wait until you get home to tell everyone how awesome your vacation was and be vague about the date of any trip.
Letting Search Engines Find You
To help prevent strangers from accessing your page, go to the Search section of Facebook's privacy controls and select Only Friends for Facebook search results. Be sure the box for public search results isn't checked.
Permitting Youngsters to Use Facebook Unsupervised
Facebook limits its members to ages 13 and over, but children younger than that do use it. If you have a young child or teenager on Facebook, the best way to provide oversight is to become one of their online friends. Use your e-mail address as the contact for their account so that you receive their notifications and monitor their activities. "What they think is nothing can actually be pretty serious," says Charles Pavelites, a supervisory special agent at the Internet Crime Complaint Center. For example, a child who posts the comment "Mom will be home soon, I need to do the dishes" every day at the same time is revealing too much about the parents' regular comings and goings.
Consumer Reports has no relationship with any advertisers on Yahoo!
Copyrighted 2009, Consumers Union of U.S., Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Using a Weak Password
Avoid simple names or words you can find in a dictionary, even with numbers tacked on the end. Instead, mix upper- and lower-case letters, numbers, and symbols. A password should have at least eight characters. One good technique is to insert numbers or symbols in the middle of a word, such as this variant on the word "houses": hO27usEs!
Leaving Your Full Birth Date in Your Profile
It's an ideal target for identity thieves, who could use it to obtain more information about you and potentially gain access to your bank or credit card account. If you've already entered a birth date, go to your profile page and click on the Info tab, then on Edit Information. Under the Basic Information section, choose to show only the month and day or no birthday at all.
Overlooking Useful Privacy Controls
For almost everything in your Facebook profile, you can limit access to only your friends, friends of friends, or yourself. Restrict access to photos, birth date, religious views, and family information, among other things. You can give only certain people or groups access to items such as photos, or block particular people from seeing them. Consider leaving out contact info, such as phone number and address, since you probably don't want anyone to have access to that information anyway.
Posting Your Child's Name in a Caption
Don't use a child's name in photo tags or captions. If someone else does, delete it by clicking on Remove Tag. If your child isn't on Facebook and someone includes his or her name in a caption, ask that person to remove the name.
Mentioning That You'll Be Away From Home
That's like putting a "no one's home" sign on your door. Wait until you get home to tell everyone how awesome your vacation was and be vague about the date of any trip.
Letting Search Engines Find You
To help prevent strangers from accessing your page, go to the Search section of Facebook's privacy controls and select Only Friends for Facebook search results. Be sure the box for public search results isn't checked.
Permitting Youngsters to Use Facebook Unsupervised
Facebook limits its members to ages 13 and over, but children younger than that do use it. If you have a young child or teenager on Facebook, the best way to provide oversight is to become one of their online friends. Use your e-mail address as the contact for their account so that you receive their notifications and monitor their activities. "What they think is nothing can actually be pretty serious," says Charles Pavelites, a supervisory special agent at the Internet Crime Complaint Center. For example, a child who posts the comment "Mom will be home soon, I need to do the dishes" every day at the same time is revealing too much about the parents' regular comings and goings.
Consumer Reports has no relationship with any advertisers on Yahoo!
Copyrighted 2009, Consumers Union of U.S., Inc. All Rights Reserved.
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